discussion – Shoutout From The Pit

2025-03-08

Episode 0018 Sex Love and Pornography.mp3

Today’s discussion is Sex, Love, and Pornography Ole Rucker is joined by The Reverend, Tony, Pat and RedBeard. They discuss the impact of sex, love, and pornography in modern society. The hosts acknowledge the sensitive nature of the topic and highlight the prevalence of sex-related content in Hollywood, advertising, and digital platforms. They explore how societal norms have shifted over time, making discussions about sex more mainstream while issues like death have become taboo. Reverend emphasizes that sex is a gift from God but has been distorted by cultural influences, leading to unrealistic expectations and addiction. The episode touches on the psychological and spiritual consequences of pornography addiction, highlighting its effects on relationships and personal well-being.

The conversation expands to the intersection of addiction recovery and sexual behavior, discussing how individuals recovering from substance abuse often struggle with newfound compulsions, including sex addiction. The hosts stress the importance of accountability, open dialogue, and community support in overcoming destructive habits. They acknowledge that pornography addiction operates on the same neural pathways as hard drugs, making it difficult to overcome without external support. Human trafficking is also addressed as a significant issue tied to the pornography industry, underscoring the need for awareness and intervention. To support listeners, the episode concludes with recommendations for resources like Covenant Eyes, a program designed to promote accountability in online behavior. The hosts encourage listeners to seek help, share their struggles, and engage with a supportive community rather than battling these challenges alone.

2025-02-25

Episode 0017 Tolerance Routines and Obstacles Tracks

Members of the tribe gather to discuss principles from their program, focusing on “love and tolerance is our code” and “principles before personalities.” They share personal experiences of how these values have shaped their recovery journeys, emphasizing the importance of treating others with kindness, regardless of differences. They acknowledge that while they don’t have to agree with or even like everyone, they must extend the same patience and support they once received. This mindset not only strengthens their sobriety but also allows them to help newcomers who are struggling. They also highlight that love and tolerance do not mean being a doormat; boundaries are necessary to maintain personal growth and respect.

The discussion shifts to healthy routines and practices, with members emphasizing the role of structured habits in maintaining sobriety. Key routines include prayer, service work, attending meetings, and staying connected to a support network. They discuss the importance of adaptability, acknowledging that while routines provide stability, they must also evolve as they grow in their recovery. Burnout and complacency are common obstacles, and they stress the importance of balancing recovery with other life responsibilities. By keeping recovery as a priority and practicing discipline even on difficult days, they ensure long-term success in their sobriety.

Finally, they address obstacles that can derail healthy habits, including laziness, overcommitment, and life distractions. They recognize that recovery requires consistent effort and self-awareness to avoid falling into old patterns. The discussion concludes with a reminder that their world has expanded since getting sober, and their primary purpose is to help others while staying accountable to their own growth. They emphasize that maintaining balance and being open to change are key to sustaining a fulfilling and sober life.

2025-01-26

Episode 0016 Kristis Story – Screw Shame

Screw Shame!
Kristi, a youth pastor and former pornography addict, schools the Old Rucker to the harms of pornography and how she overcame the addiction and helps others to get out of the addiction.

Kristi’s Battle Plan for Recovery

Resources:
XXXChurch.com
https://youtube.com/shorts/YOoRgdrwztk?si=USZWDT2UJ7Vd15OQ

2025-01-192025-01-19

Episode 0014 Quad Squad

Brett and featured guest Mark share what it means to be a quadriplegic and correlations between physical disabilities and alcoholism.

Mark is a quadriplegic, public speaker, and advocate who supports individuals with recent injuries and their families in navigating the adjustments and challenges of life in a wheelchair. Learn more about Mark at his website: http://www.makeasplashinc.com/

“It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.”
― Theodore Roosevelt

2024-06-072024-09-11

Episode 0001 Podcast Launch

Join the Old Rucker, Tony, Pat and Redbeard in the launch episode of Shoutout From the Pit.